Ready to marry my girlfriend, my mother told me that she was pregnant and was going to give birth to a second child.

My name is Li Ming, 28 years old, a white -collar worker.My girlfriend Xiaohong and I have been in love for three years and are going to get married this year.We are all only children, so our parents are very supportive of our marriage, and we are looking forward to having a child early and adding them to give them a grandson or granddaughter.

Our weddings are set in October, and we have begun preparations.We chose a beautiful hotel, set a suitable wedding dress, and found a professional photographer.We are all very excited and think this is the most important day in our lives.

But just last month, my mother suddenly called me and said she had to tell me something.I thought it was a good thing, but I didn’t expect that what she said made me stunned.

"Obviously, your mother and I am pregnant," she said.

"What? Are you pregnant? Aren’t you menopause?" I asked.

"Yeah, I didn’t expect it. Maybe it was because I took some Chinese medicine to condition my body recently, so I restored my fertility. Your dad and I didn’t pay attention to contraception, so it was the same." She said.

"What do you plan to do? Do you not want a second child?" I asked.

"What do you plan to do? Of course it is born. This is a gift that God gives us. How can we be willing to kill it? And you also know that the country now encourages the second child to have a second child, and we also want to accompany you with one child."she says.

"But mother, you are now in your 50s, and having a child is not good for your body. And you still have to feed a child now, do you have this financial ability?" I advised her.

"Obviously, don’t worry about us. We are good in our body, and having children has no impact on us. And we also have some savings, enough to feed a child. Besides, after you get married, you will help to afford some?"she says.

"Mom …" I was speechless.

I know she has been determined to have this child. She has always been stubborn and will not easily change her mind.And she was a little careful. If I opposed her decision, she might think that I was not filial and didn’t care about her feelings.

But I really think this decision is too ridiculous.She and dad are older, and regenerating a child is a burden for them, not a kind of happiness.And this child is too different from me, and it is impossible to become my brother or sister at all, more like my son or daughter.If they were born, how should I face him?

More importantly, this incident will affect my marriage.Although Xiaohong didn’t say anything, I knew she was definitely uncomfortable.After all, she also wants to be the only woman in my family, and she also wants to be the only daughter -in -law of my parents.If my mother gave birth to a child, she would share my parents’ love with a younger brother or sister who was young, and had to get along with her teenage mother -in -law.This is a kind of pressure for her, but also a kind of grievance.

I do not know what to do.I don’t want to hurt my parents nor to hurt my girlfriend.I just want to get married blandly and live a happy life.But now, all this has become complicated.

This is hard to me.

That’s the end of the story.

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